18th May 2025

 

I passed Chris from the same duplex as me, number 3 mentioned in the Garry Post today.

I have spoken to Housing before an a few occasions about my neighbour Chris in number 3. I always got along with Chris but felt uneasy being alone with him because every conversation he would say to me you need a massage. Would you like a massage? it made me feel uneasy and itcrossed my boundaries,  but I like to get along with my neighbours so I would divert the conversations when they got uncomfortable.

In 2022 I began to notice my underwear going missing from the laundry.  it became the family joke with my children as i would have to buy new underwear each time I was shopping  Soon it got down to one paid of pants.

I began to get very anxious, a week later Chris called me and said :there some underwear in the drier” the hairs raised on my arms as I had stopped washing my underwear in the laundry and now washed it in the bathroom. I went and opened the drier sand there was about 15 pairs of my underpants.

a few weeks later, my daughter and I were siting in the back room …. we had the back door and the laundry door open.

my daughter whispered look mum he is sniffing my pants. I turned around and as Chris was pulling my daughters little lacey g-string pants down from his face.

I didn’t know what to say. I was  lost and scared and did not know what to do. I reported it

I began to avoid Chris, I did not know how to deal with this one. Chris is a severe alcoholic who has been in rehab multiple times, his employers paid for quite a few rehabs. Alcoholism cost Chris his family who is is estranged from his children and does not talk to them nor want to even though he does not drink anymore.

Severe Addiction Issues

Addiction cost him his houses and his job and turned him into a old hypochondriac. Pedantic. Long term blackout drunk alcoholic.

obsessive compulsive loner with no visitors and 4 inches of dust on everything. Chris is living in dank stark surrounds. Gloomy with nothing at all personal in his home

In January when Paul assaulted me, Chris denied seeing it but yet when I was talking to Paul just before he pushed me ai could see chris at the window. He is a huge gossip and would not miss a moment of the yelling. He was always telling me of each detail in the complex, to Robby in 7 going out of a night every night and Dave in 6 and his father yelling at each other.

I was a bit puzzled why he didn’t admit to see it happen, but then I knew he was a very weak minded and souled person. He brags about his AA and years of being in AA and yet every race day he buys hundreds of dollars worth of tab tickets leaving him broke and unable to ay for a shed or car parts. Every race day he is of to the pub for the tab.

Chris comes across as being benign but yet I had seen those poor character flaws with the underwear and hypochondria and alcohol gambling compulsive addiction issues .

One day in January i walked out and Chris said what is that smell. i answered not sure I think its a drain ..it was a burning chemical smell like methane. I sniffed again and said” It is a bit strange”.

Chris looked at me and said” there is some very strange things around here at the moment”

I thought well that was weird and so I said what is strange Chris, is it that all the men around here want to abuse me, steal from me and then play the old everything is all good? Then I said I have an issue Chris. And told him what my daughter and i had seen. he just looked at me and said I hope thats not that way you think of me. I said, I don’t know what to think Chris, look what you just said and look what you did or didn’t do.. stick up for me.

Soon after all that in January and Feb Chris began to “hang around” Garry and Richard. They gossiped and carried on whining about every single little thing. Richard hated me because his dog loves me. He trained his dog with a thong he would hit her with. When I came near

his place when she was a pup,  he made her bark and go off as I walked past. Kellie the dog would and does cower when she see me .. but it is soo sad, you see the love in her eyes, she knows me and just wants some love.

In December Kellie disobeyed Richard and came and laid in front of me on her back with her legs in the air, TRUST of a DOG. She loved me and loves me so much but is forced to jump and startle in case Richard will throws a thong or slap her with one.

Richard said each time this happened, give me 200 dollars and she is yours .. she is no good to me now.

I remember back in around sept/oct after I had bought my shd, Chris and I were talking and he was saying how he wished he had a shed. he said he had rung housing and they had told him he wasn’t getting a shed and had to buy his own Soon after that I told Tracey about Chris wanting   a shed as he had often discussed with me. He didn’t end up buying hers she sold hers for a good price.

I was out the front of my unit last week and I ended up asking Chris what the hell had happened and why had he turned his back on me  when Garry was abusing me.

He thought for a sec then fell back on empty dialogue saying, “you raised your voice”.

I answered, “um Chris, I asked a question and told truth. That is my right.”.In turn I was screamed at sat on and ridiculed. Chris looked at his phone as if he was confused and then straightened all indignant and sprouted out “but you raised your voice”.

“I am sorry you have such an eversion to truth and what is really real”

What sort of illegible lies is that one from. how did I what did I say?

and he tried changing tracks and stomped out “and what about all those abusive text massages you sent me.”

I looked puzzled. What sort of illegible lies is that one from. how did I what did I say?  I was puzzled and still am. I remember telling him a simple truth about protecting women not turning your back on them..

Then Chris turned around and irately said ” it is all in the hands of the police, the courts and housing now.”

I said what is. He said “Those abusive text messages you sent, the police have them. Its all in their hands now!!”

I looked at him and said “umm Chris I know it might be a bit hard for you to understand truth, it is harsh at times but those messages were not abusive..”

and here for everyone of course is my abusive text messages